ﺍﻟﺴﻼﻡ ﻋﻠﻴﻜﻢ ﻭﺭﺣﻤﺔ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻭﺑﺮﻛﺎﺗﻪ
) ﻓﺼﻞ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻤﺮﺃﺓ ﺍﻟﻄﺎﺋﻌﺔ ﻟﺰﻭﺟﻬﺎ ﻭﺷﺪﺓ ﻋﺪﺍﺏ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﺻﻴﺔ (
ﻳﻨﺒﻐﻲ ﻟﻠﻤﺮﺃﺓ ﺍﻟﺨﺎﺋﻔﺔ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺗﻌﺎﻟﻰ ﺃﻥ ﺗﺠﺘﻬﺪ ﻟﻄﺎﻋﺔ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻭﻃﺎﻋﺔ ﺯﻭﺟﻬﺎ ﻭﺗﻄﻠﺐ ﺭﺿﺎﻩ ﺟﻬﺪﻫﺎ
ﻓﻬﻮ ﺟﻨﺘﻬﺎ ﻭﻧﺎﺭﻫﺎ
ﻟﻘﻮﻝ ﺍﻟﻨﺒﻲ ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ :
) ﺃﻳﻤﺎ ﺃﻣﺮﺃﺓ ﻣﺎﺗﺖ ﻭﺯﻭﺟﻬﺎ ﺭﺍﺽ ﻋﻨﻬﺎ ﺩﺧﻠﺖ ﺍﻟﺠﻨﺔ (
__ﻭﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻳﺚ ﺃﻳﻀﺎ :
) ﺇﺫﺍ ﺻﻠﺖ ﺍﻟﻤﺮﺃﺓ ﺧﻤﺴﻬﺎ ﻭﺻﺎﻣﺖ ﺷﻬﺮﻫﺎ ﻭﺃﻃﺎﻋﺖ ﺑﻌﻠﻬﺎ ﻓﻠﺘﺪﺧﻞ ﻣﻦ ﺃﻱ ﺃﺑﻮﺍﺏ ﺍﻟﺠﻨﺔ ﺷﺎﺀﺕ (
ﻭﻓﻲ ﺣﺪﻳﺚ ﺁﺧﺮ :
) ﺇﻃﻠﻌﺖ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻨﺎﺭ ﻓﺮﺃﻳﺖ ﺃﻛﺜﺮ ﺃﻫﻠﻬﺎ ﺍﻟﻨﺴﺎﺀ (
ﻭﺫﻟﻚ ﺑﺴﺒﺐ ﻗﻠﺔ ﻃﺎﻋﺘﻬﻦ ﻟﻠﻪ ﻭﻟﺮﺳﻮﻟﻪ ﻭﻹﺯﻭﺍﺟﻬﻦ ﻭﻛﺜﺮﺓ ﺗﺒﺮﺟﻬﻦ
ﻭﺍﻟﺘﺒﺮﺝ ﺇﺫﺍ ﺃﺭﺍﺩﺕ ﺍﻟﺨﺮﻭﺝ ﻟﺒﺴﺖ ﺃﻓﺨﺮ ﺍﻟﺜﻴﺎﺏ ﻭﺗﺠﻤﻠﺖ ﻭﺗﺤﺴﻨﺖ ﻭﺧﺮﺟﺖ ﺗﻔﺘﺘﻦ ﺍﻟﻨﺎﺱ ﺑﻨﻔﺴﻬﺎ ﻓﺈﻥ ﺳﻠﻤﺖ ﻫﻲ
ﺑﻨﻔﺴﻬﺎ ﻟﻢ ﻳﺴﻠﻢ ﺍﻟﻨﺎﺱ ﻣﻨﻬﺎ
___ﻭﻟﻬﺬﺍ ﻗﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﻨﺒﻲ ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ :
) ﺍﻟﻤﺮﺃﺓ ﻋﻮﺭﺓ ﻓﺈﺫﺍ ﺧﺮﺟﺖ ﻣﻦ ﺑﻴﺘﻬﺎ ﺇﺳﺘﺸﺮﻓﻬﺎ ﺍﻟﺸﻴﻄﺎﻥ (
ﻭﺃﻋﻈﻢ ﻣﺎﺗﻜﻮﻥ ﺍﻟﻤﺮﺃﺓ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻣﺎ ﻛﺎﻧﺖ ﻓﻲ ﺑﻴﺘﻬﺎ
ﻭﻗﺎﻝ ﻋﻠﻲ ﺭﺿﻲ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻨﻪ ﻟﻔﺎﻃﻤﺔ ﺭﺿﻲ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻬﺎ
) ﻳﺎ ﻓﺎﻃﻤﺔ ﻣﺎﺧﻴﺮ ﻟﻠﻤﺮﺃﺓ ؟ ﻗﺎﻟﺖ ﺃﻥ ﻻ ﺗﺮﻯ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﺎﻝ ﻭﻻ ﻳﺮﻭﻫﺎ (
***ﻭﻛﺎﻥ ﻋﻠﻲ ﺭﺿﻲ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻨﻪ ﻳﻘﻮﻝ :
) ﺃﻻ ﺗﺴﺘﺤﻮﻥ _ ﺃﻻ ﺗﻐﺎﺭﻭﻥ ؟ ﻳﺘﺮﻙ ﺃﺣﺪﻛﻢ ﺇﻣﺮﺃﺗﻪ ﺗﺨﺮﺝ ﺑﻴﻦ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﺎﻝ ﺗﻨﻈﺮ ﺇﻟﻴﻬﻢ ﻭﻳﻨﻈﺮﻭﻥ ﺇﻟﻴﻬﺎ (
__ﻓﺈﻥ ﺃﺿﻄﺮﺕ ﻟﻠﺨﺮﻭﺝ ﻟﺰﻳﺎﺭﺓ ﻭﺍﻟﺪﻳﻬﺎ ﻭﺃﻗﺎﺭﺑﻬﺎ ﻭﻧﺤﻮﻩ ﻣﻤﺎ ﻻﺑﺪ ﻟﻬﺎ ﻣﻨﻪ ﻓﻠﺘﺨﺮﺝ ﺑﺈﺫﻥ ﺯﻭﺟﻬﺎ ﻏﻴﺮ ﻣﺘﺒﺮﺟﺔ ﻭﺗﻐﺾ
ﻃﺮﻓﻬﺎ ﻓﻲ ﻣﺸﻴﺘﻬﺎ ﻭﺗﻨﻈﺮ ﺍﻟﻰ ﺍﻷﺭﺽ ﻻﻳﻤﻴﻨﺎ ﻭﻻ ﺷﻤﺎﻻ
__ﻭﻋﻦ ﻣﻌﺎﺫ ﺑﻦ ﺟﺒﻞ ﺭﺿﻲ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻨﻪ ﻗﺎﻝ :
ﻗﺎﻝ _ ﺭﺳﻮﻝ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ :
) ﻻ ﺗﺆﺩﻱ ﺍﻟﻤﺮﺃﺓ ﺯﻭﺟﻬﺎ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺪﻧﻴﺎ ﺇﻻ ﻗﺎﻟﺖ ﺯﻭﺟﺘﻪ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺤﻮﺭ ﺍﻟﻌﻴﻦ ﻻ ﺗﺆﺩﻳﻪ ﻗﺎﺗﻠﻚ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻭﻳﺎ ﺑﻨﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﻮﻳﻞ ﻹﻣﺮﺃﺓ ﺗﻌﺼﻲ
ﺯﻭﺟﻬﺎ (
ﻭﻓﻲ ﺭﻭﺍﻳﺔ
) ﻗﺎﺗﻠﻚ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻓﺈﻧﻤﺎ ﻫﻮ ﻋﻨﺪﻙ ﺩﺧﻴﻞ ﻳﻮﺷﻚ ﺃﻥ ﻳﻔﺎﺭﻕ ﺍﻟﺪﻧﻴﺎ (
ﻧﻘﻠﺘﻪ ﻟﻜﻦ ﺑﺘﺼﺮﻑ ﻣﻦ ﻛﺘﺎﺏ
) ﻛﺘﺎﺏ ﺍﻟﻜﺒﺎﺋﺮ (
ﺗﺄﻟﻴﻒ ﻣﺆﺭﺥ ﺍﻹﺳﻼﻡ ﺍﻹﻣﺎﻡ ﺍﻟﺤﺎﻓﻆ ﺷﻤﺲ ﺍﻟﺪﻳﻦ ﺍﻟﺬﻫﺒﻲ – ﺭﺣﻤﻪ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ –
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